How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

We are all familiar with the words femininity and masculinity but each of us has a different definition for them. Is a man allowed to cry? Should women wear lipstick and seductive dresses? And who does the dishes at home? We went on the streets of Groningen to ask people how they define gender roles. 

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

“I define femininity as an expression of confidence. When you wear lingerie you can feel confident. It makes you feel sexy for your partner and yourself.” – 44-year old lingerie sales woman

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?
How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

“A man is masculine when he can understand and empathize with a woman. When he can show his emotions. If you want to cry, you have to do it. You shouldn’t think it’s not appropriate because you are a man.” – 49-year old street artist

 

 

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

How do you feel about femininity today?

“It’s much better now. When I was younger my mother kept telling me that my life’s purpose was to have kids. That has changed now.”

 

 

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

Who’s doing the household work at home?

“I’m lucky, my husband helps with everything. But he has no choice.” – 75-year old retiree

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?
How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

What item in your store represents femininity for you?

” Sexy lingerie and sexy stockings.”

Who does the dishes at home?

“We both do the dishes. We are lesbians. And that’s a good reason to become a lesbian.” – 28-year old lingerie & sex toys sales woman

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

What defines a man as masculine?

“The ability to make decisions.” – 63-year old retiree

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?
How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

What does a man have to do to be masculine?

“Drinking beer and smoking cigars.” – 43-year old tattoo artist

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?
How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

“A real man is a person who is not afraid to cry, care and show his feelings. Masculinity is a mask for fear. It is society’s fake image. Something that doesn’t exist.” – 45-year old erotic cinema and sex shop sales man

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?
How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

“You don’t need a beard to be masculine.” – 26-year old barber

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

 

“Tattoos are part of my femininity. It’s like jewelry.”

How Do You Define Femininity And Masculinity?

What does a man have to do to be masculine?

“He has to be tender.” – 43-year old

 

 

 

 

Article by Valia Papadopoulou and Anna-Lena Sachs  

Pictures by Anna-Lena Sachs

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